Series 5 Episode 4 Handling Disagreements Constructively

In this supportive and relatable episode of Mindful Moments with Miss Harrison, children learn how to handle conflicts with friends in a calm and kind way. Through the story of Ben and Leo—two friends who fall out while building a castle but work through it by listening and finding a fair solution—pupils explore a simple, effective approach to resolving disagreements without hurting friendships.

This lesson builds communication, empathy, and emotional regulation—giving children the tools they need to navigate everyday social situations with confidence.

What’s Included:

Guided Audio Episode
A gentle, story-led session that introduces pupils to real-life conflict scenarios and shows them how to handle disagreements using kindness and respect. Includes a full transcript for flexible classroom use.
(Source: Series 5 Episode 4 audio script)

Pupil Workbook (UK and US English)
An 8-page printable reflection journal featuring:

• Personal reflection prompts

• Questions about Ben and Leo’s story

• Problem-solving scenarios

• Drawing and creative tasks

• A weekly challenge to practise using kind words and calming strategies
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Teacher Guide
A 12-page structured resource that provides:

• A complete lesson plan

• Vocabulary and discussion prompts

• Ideas for modelling, role play, and differentiation

• Guidance for helping children practise conflict resolution in a supportive way
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Key Themes:

• Conflict is a normal part of friendship

• Pausing before reacting helps avoid making things worse

• Listening to others helps everyone feel heard and understood

• Kind words and teamwork lead to better outcomes

• Solving disagreements together can strengthen relationships

Learning Outcomes:

• Pupils reflect on their own experiences of conflict

• Children learn and practise a four-step strategy:

  1. Pause and take a deep breath

  2. Listen to the other person

  3. Use kind words

  4. Find a solution together

• Scenario activities develop calm, practical responses to common disagreements

• Drawing and journaling encourage emotional expression and planning

• Pupils learn that peaceful problem-solving builds lasting friendships

This episode helps children recognise that friendship isn’t about always agreeing—but about how we handle those moments when we don’t. It provides a calm, empowering model for resolving conflict, building resilience, and maintaining strong, respectful relationships.